Absolutely agree with you Lain.

Sexuality, by any nature, is not defined by the music you listen to, the artists you find attractive, the words you choose or the way you say those words. I think that someone who believes that that is what defines your sexuality is someone who perhaps just doesn't fully understand bi-sexuality or homosexuality. They are uneducated.

I truly do not know if you can look for clear cut "signs" that you are bi-sexual. I think it is something you feel. Maybe, Hazoomy, what you need to do is ask yourself some questions. But these questions should not be about the music you listen to or the artists you find attractive. They should be questions that reach at your heart and your soul. Do you know what I mean?

Laurie